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He always looks perfectly put together. He can be in a t-shirt and jeans or heading out to a black-tie event. His hair never has a bad day. His nails are clean and buffed. His clothes are perfectly pressed and exquisitely coordinated. He smells like flowers and spice. Is he gay? No, he’s the new metrosexual man.

As many of you know by now, the term “metrosexual” was coined by a journalist (and gay man) named Mark Simpson, to describe a new kind of urban male who is straight, but in touch with his feminine side and not afraid to show it. Essentially, metrosexuals are guys who take on behaviors and show an interest in things that have traditionally belonged in the female domain.

You may have a metrosexual brother, male friend or boyfriend (ex). These are the guys you can shop till you drop with. They can discuss fashion, will notice your great new shoes, buy their grooming products from the same places you do and have no qualms about having a manicure, pedicure or facial. You can actually TALK to these guys about something other than sports, cars and other traditionally male interests. These are the guys you can take to the opera, symphony and ballet. The perfect man, right? Depends on whom you talk to.

Let’s step back a minute and look at the where and how of the existence of the metrosexual man. Simply put, he is a by-product of feminism and the changing roles and related expectations of women. As women have moved into (previously) male dominated environments and roles, it has caused a shift in the male-female balance. Women are now active participants in industry, politics and the professions- to name a few. However, as they have left their old jobs as homemakers and full-time domestic caregivers, they left a lot of empty space to be filled. Childcare providers and the domestic cleaning industry could provide some of this. The problem was all the “other” stuff women had always done.

Men were therefore called upon to contribute more to the raising of children, housework, cooking, shopping, etc. Their sons were being exposed a new role model, a dad who took on jobs and chores that had traditionally belonged to mom. Young boys themselves were also being tapped to do housework and help with siblings, exposing them to a new way of being a male in our society. Women had become more independent and financially and professionally successful. Men had become more domestic and had to soften their style as they moved into more traditionally feminine roles.

A new social order had evolved that worked for everyone, right? Not necessarily. We never take on something new without giving something up. So, what has been discarded? Clearly defined social roles and the expectations that come with them- for starters. Suddenly there was a new blueprint for how men and women should relate- especially in the world of dating. However, it was unclear and depending upon whom you asked, you would get a different answer. Usher in the confusion and frustration surrounding dating in the new millennium.

Women ask questions such as:

* who asks who out
* who calls who
* who pays
* who makes decisions about where to go, etc.
* What are the expectations at the end of the date
* how soon should we become intimate

Women comment on:

* his lack of initiative in calling or asking her out
* his expectation that they will go dutch
* how he never offers to pick her up
* his overall lack of assertiveness
* his saying he will call, but not following through
* his too polished style which lacks a certain spark of masculinity
* his taking longer to get ready than she does
* his crudeness or over aggressive style
* his expectation that they will have sex

Men ask questions such as:

* what do women want
* why should a guy have to ask a girl out
* why should the guy always pay
* why do women say they want sensitivity, etc., but see guys like that as wimps
* why do women give out such mixed signals in general
* why do women seem to reject nice guys and go for jerks
* why can’t a woman be the aggressor

Men comment on:

* women acting spoiled
* women wanting their independence, etc. but not wanting equal responsibility and weight
* women expecting a lot from men, but offering little in return
* women not knowing what they want
* women playing games
* women’s attraction to “bad boys”

Both women and men verbalize that they are ok with the current roles that have evolved for them in our society, yet I hear both talk wistfully about how it was in previous generations. Back then; everyone KNEW what was expected from him or her. Life was predictable. Dating was much simpler and “safer”. Men were men and women were raised to be wives and homemakers.
We have gained something and we have lost something. One thing for sure, we can never have it both ways.

What’s the answer? It is never simple. However, it does involve better communication in general between men and women. Singles need to clarify for themselves (first), what kind of partner they seek and what their expectations from a relationship really are. Once a person is clear about what they must have and what they can’t live with, they need to go out and HONESTLY seek that. Knowing what you want is good. If you turn off someone by your frankness, he/she was not the someone for you.

So, begin with a self-assessment. Then go out and pursue interests and environments, which maximize your chances of meeting compatible singles. And remember, there is no perfect person. He may be overly fussy with his hair, take longer in the bathroom than most women, be less ambitious in his work life than you are and put your cooking to shame. However, if he’s sensitive to YOUR needs, easy to talk to and fun to be with, great with kids and very supportive of your goals, he may be the guy of your dreams.

Toni Coleman, MSW is a licensed psychotherapist, relationship coach and founder of http://www.consum-mate.com. As a recognized expert, Toni has been quoted in many local and national publications including: The Chicago Tribune, The Orlando Sentinel, New York Daily News, Indianapolis Star and Newsweek newspapers and Family Circle, Woman’s Day, Cosmo Style, Tango, Men’s Health, Star (regularly quoted body language expert), and Nirvana magazines. She has been featured on abcnews.com; discovery.health.com; aolnews.com; MSN.com, Match.com and planetearthradio.com. Toni offers dating help and relationship advice as the weekly love and dating coach on the KTRS Radio Morning Show (St. Louis, MO) and through her syndicated column, “Dear Dating Coach.”
Her newsletter, The Art Of Intimacy, helps over fifty-five hundred subscribers with its dating and relationship advice. Toni is a member of The International Coach Federation, The International Association Of Coaches and The National Association of Social Workers.

Growing up, we all had a mental picture of the perfect life partner The person we thought would be our happily-ever-after — a person with a perfect smile, beautiful eyes, and an adorable button nose. Fast forward to reality and who did you wind up with?

Chances are that if your partner of choice happens to be male, you ended up with a guy who is shorter than you expected, has less hair than you anticipated, but overall is a pretty neat fellow. And if you’re interested in women, chances are that the woman you ended up with isn’t as curvaceous as you dreamed, but overall is a very special person.

The truth is that no matter what you envisioned, you bought into what your partner was offering. Although he or she didn’t meet all of your set criteria, they met the most important one — they are good people — and that is why you chose their companionship.

When it comes to hiring decisions, recruiters aren’t any different. Realizing that one candidate isn’t going to meet all the criteria in the job description, the recruiter buys into the person as a whole — not one characteristic, accomplishment, or degree. After all is said and done, hiring decisions, for the most part, are based on whether or not the candidate is likeable.

What most don’t understand is that likeability is more than the knack for getting others to hang out with you after work and share a couple of beers. This is why most interviews are challenging. Not only do you have to demonstrate that you are technically capable of doing the job, you must go a step further and impress the recruiter with your professional makeup — that is, your ability to be assertive, focused, and versatile.

Assertiveness

When done right, assertive behavior is a nice balance between self-assurance and cockiness. This attribute can be a driving force during an interview because the person sitting across from you can’t help but be drawn to you, and therefore begins to respond to your ideas, thoughts, and words. Coming across as assertive leaves the listener the impression that you are confident in who you are as a professional; and that attribute wins job offers.

Focus

Believe it or not, most interviewers dislike going through the motions of hiring, just as much as candidates dislike going on interview after interview. For this reason, a huge part of a successful interview is based on your ability to focus your responses on results. In doing so, you bring clarity to the conversation and help connect the dots for the interviewer. This is an important point because there are times when interviewers don’t fully understand how your marketable skills can easily transfer to the open position.

When the interviewer begins to buy into your experience, you automatically become more appealing, and — in the eyes of the interviewer — the most qualified candidate.

Versatility

Interviewers seek candidates who have a broad perspective and aren’t stuck in their way of doing things. Individuals who are versatile are natural-born achievers and are recognized for being forward thinking, flexible, and resourceful. These attributes interest organizations since the candidates who are adaptable will more than likely flourish in any circumstance.

Too often, job seekers overlook the likeability factor. The reason? It’s always easier to lay the blame on a hiring manager than to take a personal inventory of how you are affecting your job search. Though it is true that sometimes hiring decisions are based on factors beyond your control, there are occasions when it comes down to whether or not you made a positive first impression.

About The Author

Recognized as a career expert, Linda Matias brings a wealth of experience to the career services field. She has been sought out for her knowledge of the employment market, outplacement, job search strategies, interview preparation, and resume writing, quoted a number of times in The Wall Street Journal, New York Newsday, Newsweek, and HR-esource.com. She is president of CareerStrides and the National Resume Writers’ Association. Visit her website at www.careerstrides.com or email her at linda@careerstrides.com.

Hair Loss is an issue troubling many males and females regardless of age. Hair transplants is one method for dealing with hair loss.

In this article, I discuss:

1. What is a hair transplant?

2. Why choose a hair transplant?

3. What are the downsides?

4. How much will a hair transplant cost me?

What is a hair transplant?

Hair transplants are a form a surgical hair restoration, one of the most popular ones since it is less radical and than other surgical ways to restore hair. Hair transplants have been done by doctors for a long time, and the techniques have had many years to develop into more and more sophisticated procedures. The basic idea behind a hair transplant is that hair is removed from the back and sides of your scalp and implanted on the area of the head were the hair loss is most severe, which is usually on the top of the head or at a declining hair line. Hair on the back of the head is usually not affected by male pattern baldness, and can therefore be used to restore other areas.

Why choose a hair transplant?

One of the biggest advantages with a hair transplantation is that is permanent. Contrary to other popular hair restoration techniques, you don’t have to stay on prescription drugs for the rest of your life or cover your scalp in ointment twice a day. The hair used in a hair transplant is from your own body. Once the hair transplants are finished, no follow up procedures or continued treatments are required.

What are the downsides?

As with all surgical procedures there is always risks and pain involved. The removal and implantation of hair is painless, since you will have received a series of anaesthetic injections into the scalp area. Receiving these injections can however be the source of a considerable amount of pain and discomfort, especially since many of us instinctively dislike having needles inserted to our head. If you will experience a lot of pain or not is very individual, some people claim that it hurt really bad and wished that their doctor had warned them more in advance, while others just experienced a series of mild stings. It is just like taking a blood sample or going to the dentist, in the sense that some people are very sensitive to pain and needles while others hardly feel it at all.

The hair transplant is permanent, and no follow up procedures or continued treatment is required, but keep in mind that you might have to go through several procedures to get your desired amount of hair. If there is a very limited amount of movable hair on the back and sides of your head, this can also be a reason to avoid a hair transplant.

There is always the risk of visible scars on the scalp after a hair transplant. Small scars are always formed where your hair has been removed, but this is covered up by the hair around it and is usually no problem. If you keep on loosing hair after the transplantation, or choose a very short hair cut, the scars can however become visible. It is important to find a doctor who is not only able to make a hair transplant that looks good today, but one that will continue to look good and natural in the future as well. You might want to combine the surgery with some other treatment, like pills or ointment, to prevent further hair loss.

How much will a hair transplant cost me?

It is hard to estimate the cost of your hair transplant, since the price varies enormously depending on which hair transplant clinic you choose. The cost has also decreased considerably during the last few years at some clinics due to competition. Keep in mind that the cost is only one factor to take in to account when choosing a clinic and the cheapest ones might not always be the best. On the other hand, there is absolutely no guarantee that a celebrated, overpriced clinic will do a better job than a more reasonably charging one. Generally speaking, $ 2,500 -10,000 per session is considered standard and you will usually need at least four sessions. Before you make any decisions, remember to make an estimation of how much keeping your hair will cost you in the long run if you chose some other method, e.g. prescription drugs, wigs or ointments.

Kevin Allman runs a Male Hair Loss Resource Center HERE. At his website, you can find audio clips and articles about dealing with Hair Loss. You can also ask any questions in the forum and he’ll reply as soon as possible!

If you are losing your hair and you are afraid that you will go bald, there are many different kinds of hair growth products on the market. When choosing the hair growth products you need, one thing that you should look at it is the product’s ability to accelerate hair growth and rejuvenate dead hair follicles. Most men and women like to choose products made of herbs because they don’t like using the products that contain chemicals that could cause harmful side effects.

You have to read the information about the hair growth products that are available. Any product that claims to inhibit hair loss is making invalid claims. There are no legitimate products on the market with the ability to do this. One remarkable product is a hair growth pill that you can get without a doctor’s prescription, but you should check with the doctor before you take it. Even though many of these pills are herbal, there are still side effects. Women should avoid using this hair growth product because it does cause hair growth all over the body- not just on the head.

If you don’t want to visit your doctor for a prescription for a hair loss product, you should check the pharmacy for many generic hair growth products or check online. When you check on line for a listing of these hair growth products you can read about the research and clinical studies that prove they work. You just have to remember that whether you use a shampoo, a topical solution or a hair growth pill that what works for one person may not work for you. Everyone is different and you should search for the causes of the hair loss first.

Some hair growth products are topical treatments rather than a hair growth pill. To use this type of product you have to apply it to the scalp when you wash your hair. You apply it directly to the scalp twice a day. Most users do this in the morning and then before they go to bed each night. You have to be very careful that you don’t get it on the skin of any other part of the body and doctors tell you to avoid this hair growth product is you are pregnant or nursing. The active ingredient in this product is the same one used in medications that lower high blood pressure, so it is important to make sure your doctor checks out your medical history before prescribing this hair growth product.

Have you ever heard the saying “Bald is beautiful”. If you are experiencing hair loss why not avoid hair growth products and let nature take its course.

Hair growth products do work, but not for everybody.

For a website totally devoted to hair loss and hair replacement visit Peter’s Website The Hair Replacement Guide, and find out about Hair Loss Treatments as well as Hair Restoration and more, including Male Hair Loss and Female Hair Loss.

Acne is becoming a major problem for people and that’s the reason acne products are so popular these days. You can find huge number of creams and cleansers made specifically to remove acne. Teenagers and adults both use acne products to make there skin clean and nice. Almost every acne product is similar, they have got same ingredients and same function, the only difference is due to there packaging. Following are some of the popular acne products.

1. Acne Gel Lotion: a gel that is appreciated by many people. It is best used if you are having problem with reappearing acne. It removes bacteria and controls oil on your skin.

2. Persa Gel: a product made by Johnson and Johnson. Prevents your skin against whiteheads and black head acne. It’s a water base gel so you can use it on any skin.

3. Blemish Agent: another cream that seals your skin with by using salicylic acid. This helps to prevent dirt from entering pores on your face.

4. Oxy 10: a very strong cream that is used to treat the worst acne. The cream is best used to treat existing acne; it should not be used to prevent future acne production, and some say it actually works.

Having a lot of body hair can be embarrassing, and it can be painful and tedious to remove and maintain yourself. A popular new trend in hair removal is laser hair removal. Many people looking for a permanent or long-term way to remove unwanted body hair look to this procedure for relief. This increasingly common procedure removes the hair relatively quickly with a handheld device that releases beams of light into your hair follicles. The procedure eliminates hair for a much longer period of time than the routine techniques of hair removal, such as by shaving or waxing. Practitioners promise that your hair is removed quickly from the root with little discomfort, and you can expect that your hair will grow back at a much slower rate than with waxing. If you are looking into the procedure for yourself in a larger city such as New York, it is vital that you know all educate yourself on all aspects of laser hair removal, from knowing the basic principles behind it to knowing how to sift through the volumes of laser hair removal centers in the phone book, and especially what it will cost you to get this treatment.

There are many positive aspects of laser hair removal. The primary reason people seek out the procedure is for the relief and convenience of having unwelcome body hair removed for a long period of time. Although this treatment has not been proven to permanently remove body hair, there is often a permanent reduction in appearance of your hair, which can alleviate stress and embarrassment. When the hair does grow back, it is often a lighter color and a finer texture, which may prove to be more manageable, and might not warrant repeat procedures. As long as it is performed cautiously and by someone with experience, laser hair removal is generally considered safe. Laser hair removal is the best solution for those who have a large area on the body that they wish to treat, such as the back, chest, or legs that is too hard to maintain by shaving. Laser hair removal might be preferable in a case such as this because of the longer-lasting effects. Patients with fairer complexions that have darker body hair usually get the best results seen with laser hair removal.

Just as there are several positive aspects to laser hair removal, there are also some potential concerns raised with the procedure. Because the procedure goes largely unregulated, there is no medical evidence that laser hair removal is completely safe or effective. Further, it is difficult to establish a set gauge of hair regrowth rates, because every body is completely different. The process does not work as effectively on gray, red, or blonde hair, and people with darker skin tones or on people who tan themselves need to take heed, as there is a risk of burns, abrasions, or skin discoloration as a result of the procedure. Since it can take several sessions to get the desired effect, the cost of laser hair removal can be quite expensive. And because some people do not react to the process in any way, it can prove to be a waste of time and money.

As is common with most types of cosmetic surgeries or procedures, the cost of laser hair removal differs according to the region in which you live, and by the practitioners that perform the procedures. If it is a clinic that only performs laser hair removal, the cost might be slightly higher than if laser hair removal is performed by a plastic surgeon or clinic that specializes in more than one type of cosmetic procedure. In cities such as New York, where the cost of living is significantly higher than in other parts of the country, laser hair removal might be radically more expensive than in a region such as the Midwest. There are also a few other variables to think about that might affect the cost of your laser hair removal. If you will need multiple treatments, if you have a large area on your body that you want treated, or if you have thicker body hair, laser hair removal might be more expensive. When researching practitioners, look for special offers such as referral discounts, and check to see if any offer financing.

When looking for a practitioner to perform you laser hair removal in a city like New York, not only do you need to consider the increased cost, but you also need to bear in mind the reputation of the clinic you choose. You want someone trustworthy, and well thought-of. Make sure to schedule several in-office consultations with the practitioners that would perform the procedure on you, and try to get a patch test done. Check for clean facilities, and don’t commit to the procedure until you have spoken to former patients that have had the procedure done. It is important to know the risks of a procedure like laser hair removal, both physically and financially. It is important to know that it probably isn’t an everlasting solution to your unwanted body hair, and that the cost of laser hair removal in a large city like New York can be very high depending on your situation and the practitioner you choose.

Learn the essential information for picking the right beauty clinic for your treatment. Laser Hair Removal New York

Acne is an inflammation of the skin that affects people from every country and every culture around the world. In the US, acne is predominantly thought of as a teenage dilemma, as more than eighty percent of teens and preteens will develop some form of acne. However, the condition certainly affects a large number of adults and even infants. The scientific name for the condition is acne vulgaris because acne usually strikes in plainly visible locations such as the face, neck, chest and back. There are various types of acne that range in annoyance, severity, and healing time. The most severe type of acne may even lead to scars that if not treated properly, may be visible for a lifetime. If you or a loved one is troubled by severe acne, here’s what you need to know about acne scars and what you need to do to avoid and care for them.

How Does Acne Form?

Contact with an oily substance such as mineral oil, vegetable oil, or petroleum is a potential cause of acne, as is the use of certain medication and steroids. However, acne is most often cause by the secretion of androgens. Acne is also aggravated by milk or dairy products, red meat and fast food. Androgens are sex hormones that are initially secreted at the onset of puberty. They are male hormones but they are secreted by females as well. Androgens stimulate the production of oil from the skin’s oil glands. Acne occurs when these overactive oil glands become blocked, causing the oil to build up in the gland and swell. A bacteria called Propionibacterium acnes normally colonizes this swollen gland causing the development of inflammation and pus. In particularly severe cases, the glands may burst into the skin and produce cysts.

Types Of Acne

Acne blemishes are categorized into four grades, ranging from mild to very severe.

Grade I: Mild acne falls into this category. People with grade I acne generally have blackheads and whiteheads but pimples are not present.
Grade II: The condition is considered moderate acne when blackheads, whiteheads, and small pimples are present, but they are confined to the face and the inflammation they cause is minimal.
Grade III: Severe acne includes blackheads, whiteheads, and deeper pimples with more pronounced swelling.
Grade IV: acne is considered very severe when it occurs on the face, neck, shoulders, chest, and back. Pustules and deeper cysts occur with very severe acne and scarring may result if the condition is not cared for properly.
Preventing Acne Scars

The most important rule for acne sufferers to remember is that you should never pick or squeeze acne blemishes. This can lead to the spread of acne and the development of acne scars. Instead, there are a number of herbal, homeopathic, and traditional formulas that can be used to treat acne and prevent the development of acne scars. Herbs work naturally with the body to reduce acne blemishes and prevent the development of acne scars. Echinacea and poke root are often used for their anti-inflammatory properties and red clover may be beneficial for its estrogenic action. Witch hazel has excellent astringent properties and may be very effective on acne.

Relieving Acne Scars

Acupuncture: Stagnant of Chi in the channels of the face is said to be the cause of acne. Acupuncture performed on these points of the face may help relieve acne, and prevent the development of acne scars.

Surgery: In moderate to severe cases of acne, doctors may use surgery to open up the blemishes and remove blackheads and whiteheads. Unlike medication treatments, the effects of acne surgery are usually more immediate. And surgery is also effective in reducing the development and visibility of acne scars.

Cleaning the intestinal Tract: Acne can be a by-product of a filthy intestinal tract and colon. In most cases when the colon is clean the acne will go away. I recommend the intestinal cleanser Oxy-Powder.

Other remedies include the skin rejuvenation program including 3 products: Oxy-Skin, Oxy-Zap and a strong Aloe Vera concentrate available at http://www.acne-answers.org. These products should help prevent acne scarring.

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Aromatherapy tips enhance the way you look, for aromatherapy is the art of massaging volatile, non-oily essences of plants and flowers for enlivening mind, body and soul of all. Aromatherapy oils include geranium, Rose, Neroli, Lavender, Lemongrass, Basil and Roman chamomile, which are mingled with base oils like almond, walnut, and grape seed and other vegetable oils to produce a wonderful effect on everyone.

Aromatherapy tips for using the oils

Since ancient times aroma is favorite to all. So the aromatherapy oils not only soothe your senses but also heal all physical pain and mental depressions. So before you start using aromatherapy oils, you should know how to use these oils. The aromatherapy massage oils are used in the spas and healing centers but you can also use it for self-massage in your own home.

In case of self-massage make your own personalized oils by blending neroli, eucalyptus, lavender, rosemary, nutmeg, and peppermint in the base oils and also add a few drops of basil to make a wonderful mixture. While bathing you can add oils like lavender, Roman chamomile and rose to the waters, so that you feel fresh. Diffuser means dispensing essential oils into the air. You can add the scented oils to a bowl of water placed on a radiator and inhale them to realize the effects.

Aromatherapy tips for various body parts

Other than typical beauty care, aromatherapy can also heal depression, insomnia, acne, joint pains, stress, cough, and other diseases. Aromatherapy tips can include tips for skin, body, mental concentration, headache, depression and insomnia.

Aromatherapy tips for skin care

When it comes to skin care, aromatherapy can heal acne and dry skin, enhance facial glow, provide pedicure and manicure effects, prevents skin wrinkles and make your skin look soft and smooth.
Following are the tips for skin care:
Use oils like bergamot, lavender, jojoba oil, sandalwood oil and avocado.
Massage every morning after bath and at night before sleeping.

Aromatherapy tips for depression

If dark circles and affected mind is your regular problem then undergo aromatherapy for depression.
Following are the aromatherapy tips for depression:
Use oils like ylang-ylang, lavender, clary sage, marjoram, frankincense, sandalwood, chamomile and rose.
Use the oils in bath, inhale them using a vaporizer or add them in carrier oils for massage.

Aromatherapy tips for insomnia

If you are spending some sleepless nights, then get massages instead of drugs to cure your insomnia.
Following are the tips for insomnia:
Use oils like neroli, ylang-ylang, marjoram, chamomile, patchouli, sandalwood, and lavender.
Mix these oils in warm water and take bath before sleeping or sprinkle few drops in the pillow so that you can smell it for whole night.

Aromatherapy tips for pregnancy

Aromatherapy massage during pregnancy provides relaxation, reduces stress and backs pains, enhances flexibility and decreases your labor pain.
Following are the tips for pregnancy massage:
Use Tangerine, petit grain, geranium, mandarin, sandalwood, and tea tree.
Areas that need massage include legs, back areas, abdomen and body massage.

Precaution tips in aromatherapy

Aromatherapy tips when followed properly can overcome both physical pains and mental stresses. It calms the anxious mind and heals all physical body pain.
Following are the forbidden things of aromatherapy massage:
Do not mistake perfume oils for real aromatherapy oils.
Do not buy essential oils with rubber glass dropper tops. Essential oils are very concentrated, which will turn the rubber to gum thus ruining the oil.
In case of pregnancy, never use oils like cypress, basil, jasmine, juniper, arnica and marjoram.

Now enjoy absolute unique health, excellent mental strength and wonderful physical wellness with aromatherapy tips and procedures.

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